21 Questions To Ask A Guy Over A Drink
Questions are the most amazing things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his amazing must-read book, “How to win friends and influence people” writes about the benefit of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
You’ve probably been to a party and you’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leaping to last-base, saving a lot of time trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you’re a woman and want to brush a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you’re a waiter and a customer was super rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or think about doing this?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What’s the highest priority for you when considering a partner – good looks, intelligence, sense of humor, or something else?
And now let’s get a little more risqu! You may have to have a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place – if so what were you doing?
16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?
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